Sunday, November 15, 2009

A thought...

The heart has it's reasons
which the mind knows nothing of...

Monday, June 15, 2009


When a deep injury is done to us...
we never recover until we forgive.

Monday, June 1, 2009

Oh no, Archie!

Archie is all set to marry Veronica!

And I am not liking it. Not in the least. Archie and Betty are such good friends. They share such a fantastic chemistry. They have such perfect tuning. She understands him so well; even better than he knows himself, maybe. Not to mention her immense love for him that surpasses everything and every time he stands her up or takes her for granted.

How can he not marry Betty? How can he not?

Closer home, we too have our set of Archie-Betty-Veronica. To begin with, there is Abhishek Bachaan who chose Aishwarya Rai even though Rani Mukherjee complimented him more in every aspect. They shared a chemistry, an intensity that is far more electrifying than the one he shares with Aishwarya. They not only made a successful couple on-screen but also came across as a warm one off it too. But he chose an arm-candy.
Then again, there is Ranbir Kapoor who dumped his childhood friend and long time sweetheart Sonam for a Deepika Padukone. They made such a cute couple what with their innocent love and long-standing friendship. They were almost perfect.

Meanwhile, to avenge all the Bettys of this world, we do have amongst us a few Veronicas as well who choose a Reggie Mantle over an Archie Andrews. A classic case is of our very own Kareena Kapoor who went for Saif Ali Khan and didn’t think twice before dumping her long-time boyfriend, the chocolate-boy, your-friend-always Shahid Kapur.

And so, all is not lost. I am truly hoping that in the 600th edition, Archie will definitely propose marriage to Veronica as publicized, but will realize his folly and return to Betty before it is too late.
And in the eventuality that he doesn’t, let’s just say that ‘guys will be guys’ and will never learn to recognize what’s good for them and what’s best. Be it a carrot-top from a comic strip or your boy-next-door.

Friday, May 29, 2009

Dazed.... yet !

I saw an opera today.

I saw poetry.


Tuesday, May 26, 2009

That thing called LOVE....

Love is a moment of a lifetime.

Love is looking at him across a room and feeling that if I don’t spend the rest of my life with him, I’ll have missed the boat.

Love is growing together, working together, laughing together.

Love is respect for each other and the people each cares about, however difficult it is sometimes to like his relatives or his friends.

Love is wanting to shout from the rooftops the successes, little or big, of one another.

Love is wanting to wipe away the tears when failure comes.

Love is liking the feeling of each other.

Love is freedom from all the weight and pain of life.

Love is wanting to say all the things I want to say but can find no voice or words and then in silence, the eyes speak what’s in the heart.

Love is unconditional, giving joyfully, without hesitation or thought of gain.

Love is wanting to have children because they are the exclamation point of love.

Love is laughter in the middle of a quarrel.

Love is an experience……

Love is forever…..

Monday, May 18, 2009


India has made her choice. And she has chosen rightly.

The verdict is crystal clear. India does not need all those regressive and anti-development supporters of communalism. She does not need those who use God in the name of politics. She definitely does not need those who wear their religion on their sleeves and have no esteem for people who follow a different faith other than their own. We need young blood, new perspective and an optimistic approach. And we rightly need a genius like Dr.Manmohan Singh to bail us out of this difficult global-economic crisis.

We are a secular democracy and we have chosen to remain one.

Dr. Manmohan Singh rocks!
Rahul Gandhi rocks!
The Congress rocks!

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

Set me free...

"If you love something,

set it free.

If it's yours,

it'll come back.


it never was."

Monday, April 20, 2009

Mohabbat Aapse

I’m currently terribly hooked on to this song – “Mohabbat aapse” from Aa dekhen zara. Great lyrics, good rendition, soulful composition ... It has this effect on me and I feel like I am being engulfed in by a very soft sensation. It’s almost hypnotic.

I just can’t seem to be getting enough of it……

Saturday, March 14, 2009


Layoff….. it was a close call…. And it passed us by…..

I had my faith… not in any idol of worship, but in Sunny. In his integrity, his commitment, his record of delivering in time. But those were not the only criteria to retain an employee, I was told. With an estimated ratio that one in every four was to be laid –off, the stakes were really high. And there was no telling who would be at the receiving end. It was not solely performance–based this time. A lot of other factors were at play too. And in these times of recession and cost-cutting, there was no knowing which side one would end up. But I had my faith.

Having said that, however, there are some things that are just beyond your control, beyond your reasoning or your understanding. And whole of today I did feel a bit weighed down. More so after yesterday when Sunny said that he was feeling weak. (I couldn’t help but remember that he always felt that way before any of his exams.) I so much wanted to be there for him. It definitely was a trying time for him. And as always he had to battle it out himself. I hated that. I mean, u have to fight your own fights, but u don’t have to be alone. And Sunny not only had to fight it out but he was all by himself too in all his struggles. We could only give him words of support and comfort from the opposite side of the planet. But there was no one when he came back to his shared apartment after a dejected day. No one was there to put a comforting hand around him or even put his favorite meal to pep him up. No one beside him when he hit the bed in the night. We were all there for him and yet, we were not. And it all came back to me after speaking with him yesterday. And I felt so helpless, so damn helpless.

However, this time he isn’t alone. Neha, my angel, is there with him. And I know he is in good hands. She will do what it takes to always keep him in his elements. She is there with him and that has taken a huge load off me. I don’t worry about him as much now, and yet whole of today, I was a bit disoriented. Solely because the very fact that he wasn’t feeling very well yesterday meant he was worked up. And that I don’t like. I just couldn’t find anything to do to pass the afternoon waiting for it to be morning in Boston. I was plain restless. It had nothing to do with the layoff-thing but with my kid-brother being worked up enough to fall sick. Nothing in this world should have that effect on my kids.
And if at all it does, then I shouldn’t be so helpless as to not be able to shield them or stand by them, for them….

P.S: Sunny, u rock. And Neha, I love you. Atul, I miss you.
You guys make my world.

Thursday, March 12, 2009


Today is Holi. Actually, it’s one festival I have never been too fond of. But this day does have some special memories, especially of papa, who used to wake up very early in the morning to fill up the water balloons. He would also make colored water in a bucket and place that bucket in the passage outside our home. And then send me off to play this festival of color with sound instructions of not hitting at anybody above the chest level or spraying color into anyone’s face or eating or drinking anything offered by anyone known or unknown. Then coming back in the afternoon after having played to the heart’s crazy content, I would hate at what I saw in the mirror and dash into the bathroom to wash n rid me of all the horrific colors. And every time it was the same difficult bathing experience and I would promise myself that, that was my last holi.
And then there used to be the HOLI –LUNCH. Mom’s absolutely mind-blowing puran-polis. Piping hot! Straight from the girdle into my plate accompanied by masalewale aloo and kadi. Aah! jannat, really!
Another recollection I have of Holi is the harrowing time we used to have a good eight to ten days before the actual day. My school bus-stop was at the main corner of our street and it was quite a walk to our society. It was almost traumatic to walk that stretch those few days as the boys of the area would wait in hiding n target every girl that passed by. I remember asking my mom to come to fetch me though it really wasn’t much help.
And then there was the actual day. All that color and that madness about who gets to apply the most and on whom, who gets painted the most, who gets drenched the most….all madness to the hilt! I never really enjoyed all that once I grew out of my childhood and stepped into my teens. But I stepped out, nevertheless, just to be in sync with my peers. Even then, I remember always keeping a distance and carrying an air about me like I was off-limits. I never realized it back then but now, looking back, I understand why I was the least colored among all my other friends and also the most dry one in the entire building. It must have been my o-touch-me-not attitude. Only, they didn’t call it attitude back then. But somehow, I never really liked being doused with color by just about anyone. In fact, I don’t remember me applying color to anyone except a few friends I considered “safe”. I believed if I don’t touch you then u can’t touch me! And I think it really worked for me…
I don’t exactly remember why or how I developed distaste for this festival but my vivid recollection is of the Holi I played when I was fifteen and in the tenth std. My board exams were on and the algebra paper was the very next day. Ideally, I wouldn’t even have thought of stepping out of home leave alone play holi, but I was cajoled by some of my friends and I couldn’t say no. So though I didn’t even have my own colors, I still went to play with borrowed ones. And it turned out to be my best Holi …. And the last too.

Then college happened and a whole new series of learning experiences and evolving from those started happening. I realized that I didn’t have to do things I didn’t want to just to be in with my friends. So though they would come calling, I would not go. The slogan” Holi hai, bhai holi hai, bura na mano, holi hai”, and everything that was expected to be allowed under its guise; I just couldn’t allow myself to let go into this frenzy. I just couldn’t stand that crazy madness anymore.

Sanjay too, isn’t a holi fan either. So it makes the two of us. But so are my little devils. Infact, yash did play until a year or two back when it became too murky n dirty for his taste. My other little gem had been playing with plain water the last couple of days and I thought, OK, at least we have someone here who doesn’t hold a thing against this day. But last evening he came home and announced that he shouldn’t be hassled about going to play holi as his friend had just informed him that he would not only be required to bring colors but also that he will be doused in a variety of those. That’s it. But in the morning he thought he would give it a shot. So he stepped out armed with his water-pistol. I was hopeful. But it was short lived. Little Teddy was back home in 15 minutes, no less. He had just a little bit of color on his cheek n a wee bit on his tee. And that was enough to turn him off! He checked himself out in the mirror and rushed his father to bathe him immediately. And then, promised me that he would not play holi ever again!
So I am back to square-one…..

Having said all that, now I must mention that this post has happened because Sunny made me all nostalgic about Holi. It is, however, very ironic that I haven’t ever played holi with him. Simply because by the time he stepped out to play this colored riot, I had taken a retreat from it. Strange, now that I think about this.
…..and I always thought there was nothing that Sunny and I didn’t share. Well, just one pinch of color, Sunny. For you….

Sunday, January 4, 2009

Interesting read....

Leafing thru’ an old diary, I came across the lyrics of the Billy Joel song, ‘A matter of Trust”. I don’t know when the song was released but I found it in my 1989 diary. A few of its lines still affect me the same way….

Some love is just a lie of the heart
The cold remains of what began
With a passionate start

And we may not want it to end
But it will, it’s just a question of when.

I’ve lived long enough to have learned
The closer you get to the fire
The more you get burned…..

After you have heard lie upon lie
there can hardly be a question of why.

Some love is just a lie of the heart
The cold remains of what began
with a passionate start.

Hmmm… some things never change, i guess.......